Are you comfortable?

I remember my growing up days when I was still learning how to dress up and appreciate my uniqueness, I spent a lot of time being indecisive on what to wear because I judged myself first by what people thought of me and how much I want to be accepted. So even when I go shopping for clothes I tried hard to look fashionable with the latest trend which sometimes turns out poorly on me. I remember buying a leather jacket because of how sophisticated it looked but guess what,I looked like a scarecrow in it. Well that’s one of many instances where i bought an outfit that didn’t fit or I didn’t like at the end of the day. Over time I’ve learnt to go for what’s comfortable first of all because the more comfortable I am the more confident I feel. So my advice for you when next you go shopping, ask yourself, ‘am I comfortable’? You can wear the outfit to answer that question or picture yourself in the outfit.. well I know some friends who will not think about comfort when they want to make a choice on what to wear because they can deal with that kind of stress. I guess the more I mature the better I’ve come to know what suits me..

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